I just can't get over what my man has done to me! Help!?

Ok, ya tricking this guy in to a pregnancy is your fault! done...but the behaviour this guy has shown you and others...is awful! He is a player! He will play your son to...one day he will be a loving father, the next he will be gone! He will come back, be a loving father again, get tired of the situation and leave again...i have seen it time and time again. I am a foster mother and have kids in my home with father's like that...they come and go like the change in weather and i am telling you right now, that is gonna tear your son to pieces inside. My foster son has gone through exactly that and is a mess today because of it. I am not going to go into any details as it is confidential but trust me...this guy is BAD NEWS...you really really gotta get yourself away from him. Especially if you can't let the past go. You need to think of you and your son now. Your son is your #1 priority. This guy is garbage as far as i am concerned. You and your son deserve so much better! In my opinion, you need to be on your own, no boyfriend..etc...for a while. You need to concentrate on getting to know yourself and raising your son. Oh, don't get me wrong, the father will be involved..whether or not he sticks around is the question!! He will need to pay support for your child. And another thing, i would be absolutely terrified that this guy would give me some kind of STD...if he sleeping around like that....oh my God!! Run away as fast as you can girl! I am not an expert but I can see this guy is going to give you a world of hurt! You need to break your ties with him and move on. Get counselling if you need help to move on....but just get the hell outta that situation. Sorry to be so pionate but I have seen what a guy like this can do to a family and I would hate for you to suffer like that. It is just not fair. That little boy deserves better! I wish you only the best!! :)