What are we to eachother?guys please ?

hey, im 13 and everyone dates at this age in my school so dont say thing like ur to young...so theres this guy lets call him J. so my guyfriends knew this kid lets call him N and J and my best friend and i flirted but then it was late like 1030 at night we were at a hotel so all the guys went back to his room then N came out and started talking to us we wanted to see J wo was sooooo hot but he went back to his room with his parents so yah. anywho i asked to see Ns phone and pretented to play around but really just took Js number. the next day J left and so did N but i was talking to J on Fb and he gave me his number and i did to and we texted. now we text all the time and he calls me hun and babe but hes dating my bff (i set it up) i like him and so does my bff. hes friend N likes me, J told me this but i dont like him... he invited me to his football game and to hang out and grabfood on this upcoming weekend and he didnt invite his gf (my bff) and i told her to se if she was going and she was like um he didnt tell me so i txted him and he said yah i guess she could come honestly hun, i dont mind :-). we txt more than his gf and him and he doesnt cal her pet names and the other day i was telling him that i could beat him in bball ( we discussesed this before this time) and he kep on saying nah and i got pised cause thats all he would say so i said fine bye im not talking to u if thats all ull say and he said ok wats up....... so does he like me? he helps me through everything...same for him... why did he only say one word while texting? where do we stand?