Playa alert...please HELP?

ok..I have asked questions like this b4...but really..I dont know why I cant tear myself away...he makes time one day of the week...usually 4 hrs, or on a holiday the majority of the day..he is always late...when he drops me home..he seems to call hrs after..fr his home phone, he has had one 2hr conversation with me in like 2 mths of seeing each other..claims we datin...righhhht...since wen u date someone for hrs out of one day in a week, he puts me off EVERYtime i call, i dont see him on weekends, he makes no attempt to see me on weekends, but has introduced me to 4 of his bestest friends of years..what d hell is dat about, why let me meet these ppl if u not intrested or u on games..he is quite affectionate when we r together, it beautiful and perfect, but heart wrenching when i step out the van to go home, then rreality kicks in, he claims we should take it slow, no soon..and i feel he is gettin it somewhere i am 15 years younger than him..andhe has 3 kids wit 3 dift women, help